Peran Gaya Resolusi Konflik sebagai Mediator antara Syukur dan Adult Attachment Style terhadap Kepuasan Pernikahan
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https://doi.org/10.59944/jipsi.v5i4.1870Keywords:
Syukur, Psikologi Islam, Kepuasan Pernikahan, Adult Attachment, Attachment Anxiety, Attachment Avoidance, Gaya Resolusi Konflik, Positive Problem SolvingAbstract
Kepuasan pernikahan merupakan salah satu indikator kualitas kehidupan pernikahan yang mencerminkan evaluasi individu terhadap kualitas relasi dengan pasangan. Dalam perspektif psikologi Islam, pernikahan diarahkan pada terwujudnya kehidupan keluarga yang dilandasi nilai sakinah, mawaddah, dan rahmah. Syukur merupakan salah satu karakteristik psikologis positif yang relevan dalam perspektif tersebut karena berkaitan dengan kemampuan individu mengenali, mengakui, dan mengapresiasi nikmat yang diterima serta memaknainya sebagai karunia Allah Swt. Dalam kehidupan pernikahan, syukur dapat berkaitan dengan cara individu memandang pasangan dan merespons permasalahan dalam hubungan. Sementara itu, attachment anxiety dan attachment avoidance menggambarkan karakteristik keterhubungan emosional yang dapat berkaitan dengan cara individu menghadapi konflik. Penelitian ini bertujuan menguji hubungan prediktif syukur, attachment anxiety, dan attachment avoidance dengan kepuasan pernikahan serta menguji peran gaya resolusi konflik sebagai mediator.
Penelitian menggunakan pendekatan kuantitatif dengan desain korelasional cross-sectional. Sampel terdiri atas 243 individu menikah yang berdomisili di Jawa Barat dan diperoleh melalui convenience sampling. Instrumen yang digunakan meliputi ENRICH Marital Satisfaction Scale (EMS), Islamic Gratitude Scale (IGS-10), Experiences in Close Relationships–Short Form (ECR-S), dan Conflict Resolution Styles Inventory (CRSI). Analisis dilakukan menggunakan PROCESS Macro Hayes Model 4 dengan bootstrapping 5.000 sampel dan heteroscedasticity-consistent standard errors (HC3).
Hasil menunjukkan bahwa syukur memiliki hubungan prediktif positif dengan kepuasan pernikahan, sedangkan attachment anxiety dan attachment avoidance memiliki hubungan prediktif negatif. Positive problem solving memediasi hubungan syukur dengan kepuasan pernikahan, sedangkan withdrawal memediasi hubungan attachment anxiety dan attachment avoidance dengan kepuasan pernikahan. Temuan menunjukkan pola mekanisme yang berbeda antara syukur dan attachment insecurity. Dalam perspektif psikologi Islam, syukur berkaitan dengan pola penyelesaian konflik yang lebih konstruktif dan kepuasan pernikahan, sehingga relevan dengan upaya membangun relasi yang selaras dengan nilai sakinah, mawaddah, dan rahmah. Temuan ditafsirkan sebagai hubungan prediktif, bukan kausalitas, berdasarkan desain cross-sectional.
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